Thus we started our journey to the hospital’s Labor and Delivery department where I was promptly admitted with severe preeclampsia. They’ve given me Magnesium to treat the high blood pressure and the first steroid shot to help the baby’s lungs to develop. My initial platelet count was also low, and they are monitoring it closely. Believe it or not, my platelet count might actually determine when this baby joins us in this world. If the count gets too low, our breech baby boy will need to delivered by c-section. Now for the good news: my second platelet count came back up slightly and blood pressure is down a bit. If the platelet count keeps steady or goes up, baby can stay in the incubator for a bit longer. At this point they’re checking it every 6hrs. I think our big goal is to make it to Wednesday so baby can get his second steroid shot through his system, but it would be amazing if we can get even more time. I feel at ease that we are in the best possible hands. I’m convinced I’m blessed to have the absolute best OB and have complete trust in her. We’re at an amazing hospital with a Level 3 NICU so I know he’s also going to be in very good hands. We had an ultrasound earlier and baby is measuring about 3lbs 6oz and is looking very healthy, so we’re feeling positive about that as well.
Trying to take things one moment at a time and not get too overwhelmed with it all. As most of you know, Lily’s Birthday is coming up only a week from today which adds even more to the situation. Will update as often as we can & appreciate all the support, thoughts, and prayers you can send our way. I treasure your words of support and encouragement, they help to keep me positive and strong. Holding hope and faith that the One who made this pregnancy possible and brought this precious life to us will continue to carry us through & keep this baby boy strong.
"When you come to the edge of all the light you know, and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught how to fly." --Barbara J. Winter
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Oh, Rebecca ... this is scary, but you sound like you are breathing through it. Know that I'm here abiding with you, sending prayers that your little boy can stay in there just a little while longer to get stronger before he joins us in this world. *hugs* to you all.
Oh Rebecca. I cannot believe you have to deal with this. It's just beyond unfair. But I know (and I know that you know) that life is so unfair so much of the time. Still, can't the unfairness be spread around, just a little?! I am so impressed with your calm attitude about it all, though I'm sure there are moments when you are reeling. Please know that I'm keeping you and your husband and your amazing little boy in my heart and in my thoughts.
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Sending strength and prayers your way!!!
Thinking about you and saying prayers!!!!!!
Thinking of you and your little one, and sending lots of prayers!!
Beautiful woman, hold strong. You will indeed, land on solid ground or be taught how to fly. In the mean time, don't get fooled by your pattern-seeking brain (we all have brains that seek patterns everywhere) who is trying to tell you that this is history repeating itself. It is NOT. This is different. You are not on the highway, you are in the hospital. You are further along in the pregnancy. Baby boy is more developed and he is receiving lung-helping steroids. You are resting and your blood pressure is starting to come down.
I will be with you in each moment. You are my dear friend and I carry you in my heart. I will continue to believe that all will be well for you and for baby. Breathe deeply.
Oh, my goodness! I hope they can get everything where it needs to be. Even a couple more weeks would be awesome. I know how scary it is, but hang in there. You know we are all pulling for you guys and your little boy. 30 weeks is awesome, though. Sending you much love!
Wow what news! I know that it's a bit early for him to be making his arrival but I'm soo glad that at least you're much farther along!
I'll be saying tons and tons of prayers for you and your little guy tonight! Good luck and keep us posted please!!
xoxox Hillary from Our Hopeful Life
I am so sorry you are going through this. You and the baby are going to get through this just fine. I hope you meet this little one on your terms! Hang in there.
Thinking of you and sending healthy thoughts to you and your little boy and supportive thoughts to your whole family! You sound remakably together - and like you have a fantastic team keeping you both well!! ((HUGS))
So scary :( Thinking of you, and hoping the little on can stay in a bit longer. So sorry you're going through this.
Thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way. Hang in there and think only good thoughts!
Hey, how did that happen now? I thought the plan was a laid-back pregnancy and delivery...hehe...I am so glad that you noticed and caught it before you had an eclamptic stroke, and especially that they gave you the steroids. I have seen lots of babies born at 31-32 weeks and it has always been ok, it is far enough along that you are out of the danger zone. I hope the magnesium does not feel too awful. I am surprised that they let you use the computer, in my hospital the policy for preeclampsia on mag is dark room, no visitors, no stimulation, utter poke-your-eyes-out boredom. I would say that you win the race this time, you get to meet your boy before me ;) My grandma says don't worry, the baby will grow (she is listening to your story as I am translating it into Romanian). Of course he will. He will be healthy and well. Grandma's predictions always come true.
Oh Rebecca, I am so sorry to hear there were was scary news the very same week as Lily's anniversary. Keep taking deep breaths, and focus on the positives. I wish this was an easier road, but I am hopeful it can all turn out okay. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Delurking to wish all three of you the very best of luck. 3 lbs 6 oz is fantastic -- so big! My daughter was born at 34 weeks 4 days and only weighed 4 lbs, and she was perfectly healthy and discharged only 11 days later. It's great that you're being so well-monitored and you are close to a level 3 NICU. I'll be thinking of you.
I'm a long-time reader of your blog, though I've only commented a handful of times. I just want you to know that I admire your strength through your trials and I will be praying for you and your little one. It may come as no consolation, but I myself was born at 31 weeks and weighed only 3 lbs. 2.5 oz. I wish you all the best and will be thinking about you.
That title was scary but I knew you and the baby were ok somehow.
I'm hoping for a reprieve for your poor BP and platelets and hoping that little boy is ready to enter the world with zest and strength and joy! Sorry about the mag, but so glad they caught it! Stay positive, my friend! Much love and big hugs!!! Xxooxxooo
Oh no! I was able to do whatever on mag but ugh, that stuff is miserable. Make sure they bring you popsicles and fans if you get hot and everyone else can just suffer through, they nicknamed my room the 'winter wonderland'.
I'm glad you caught it and that you have at least gotten the first round of steroids. My brother was a 29 weeker in the 80's before they did steroids and he came out breathing and didn't need a vent even though he was only 29 weeks. Even getting one round in is great. (The steroids are probably why your platelets got better, they can sometime raise them temporarily.)
Anyway, I'm thinking of you and your family, feel free to email me if you have questions about pre-e or HELLP from someone who has been there/done that.
thinking of you and sending lots of love & good wishes!
Thinking of you and hoping those platelets hold steady. Mag sulfate is miserable but it does work and getting the three steroid ( or is it 2 I can't remember) shots really helps. The other thing that really helps is being in a hospital that you have faith in--- so glad you are there! Hang in there that beautiful boy will be here before you know it (but hopefully not too soon)
Thinking of you and baby boy! Hang in there mama!!!
I am hoping and praying that you are both healthy in the weeks to come. I am glad that you are receiving such good care.
Oh Rebecca, I am thinking of you and sending you strength and love during this time. I know that it is scary but like you said, you have an amazing OB, you are in a place with a great NICU and baby boy is still cooking, for now. Most importantly, you have faith. Keep holding on, mama.
I have faith that everything will work out in the end. I am confident that you are in the best possible hands. I can't wait to meet him - safe and sound! Love to you.
Thinking of you big time. I'm so sorry to hear this. Glad you are in good hands. Keep us posted and sending you lots of (((hugs)))
I am praying for you!!!!
Thinking of you and hoping that all goes well. I'm glad to hear that you feel like you're in good hands at the hospital. Wishing you the very best, and thinking of Lily, too.
Keeping you both in my prayers!
Prayers from Wichita! You're definitely at the best hospital (I had my kids there). Wishing all of you the best.
Oh, my goodness. I am so sorry to hear this. I think it's just because of our experiences, but when you I heard you say swelling, my brain immediately went to "pre-e" but I was so hoping it wasn't so. I'll be praying for reduced counts. If you have time, could you e-mail me your mailing address? almostamother at gmail dot com.
xoxo
Praying for you, friend - for the health of you and your baby boy, and for your family as you near Lily's birthday. Keep us posted when you can.
Thinking of you...
Thinking of you. Hope you get the extra time and the BP behaves itself. Have faith bubba will be A-OK xx
Can't believe this is happening right around Lily's birthday. Hoping all continues well and you have a healthy baby soon.
Thinking of you and your little boy. Hoping he cooks a little longer, but if not, hoping for a healthy and happy delivery for you both. Keep us updated when you can!
Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and hoping and praying for all things to be well:) sending big hugs and strength to you and hubs and the little boy! Xx
My prayers are with you, your husband and your precious little son.
Still thinking of you all and hoping all is well!!!
Oh my goodness Rebecca! Oh no! We didn't see this coming huh? It sounds like you are in great hands and though this is going to be a lot earlier than expected, I am so excited that you will see your baby! I will be in prayer for both of you and I will check in tomorrow. Hang in there, you have so many people lifting you up right now. Many hugs and prayers coming your way! LOVE YOU!!!
Sending you warm HUGS Lots of HOpe and prayers that everyting is going to turn out fine. That God grants you and your family comfort and peace.
<3 Shandrea
Oh my God! I will keep you and your baby boy in my prayers.
I am hoping things will turn out alright.
Many Many thoughts coming your way...
iclw #36
You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you the best!
ICLW
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